Why do men lie?
Honestly I have no idea why men lie, but I have the feeling that we (the partner / female/ spouse etc) kind of do it for ourselves? Well lets not let men off the hook completely!
I have had the experience where I have been honest and open about the things I do not like, yet the men in my life have done it? Now in my mind if I do for a fact know that someone doesn’t like something I will try my best NOT TO DO IT! Men on the other hand do it and will not saying anything. And the reasoning behind it? “I did not want to tell you, as I know how you would have reacted!” Ok so now am I suppose to feel better that you still went ahead and did it without telling me? I ARE CONFUSED! If I do not like it WHY DO IT!??
I know for a fact my parents hated me doing certain things as a child, little things, yes I was tempted to do these things but wouldn’t do them?
Ok so as a child I think I had a mature approach… WHY DNT GROWN MEN HAVE THIS MENTALITY?
Ok so you spilt a lil milk, I will not freak!
Ok so you go out till waaaaaaaaaay too late (but you said it would be late), I will not freak!
Mmmm you go to a bachelors party with stripers (duh I know that there will be stripers), I will not freak!
But I tell you something specifically that would really upset me… yet the men in my life have done it or will attempt to do it and hide it!
So you can see why I’m confused…
So I’m not going to worry too much about it at that stage just wanted to vent!
WOW FEEL BETTER! (Sorry to all the people who didn’t need to hear me vent all over again :( )
MEN ARE BASTA*RDS!
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ReplyDeleteJust for all you girls. Men who lie are insecure - they feel that they need to hide their true identity. They build a web of lies to fool people around not knowing that they would hurt the people they love. I am am telling you this out of a guys perseption that know about these things.
ReplyDeleteI dont know if you would or could but if you meet the right guy that knows who he is. He would probably not lie cause he is comfortable with his life and proud to share it with you.
I hope that that this would spur some hope for you girls to still believe in some guys. We exist but there are a few left. Just hang on you will find the one.
And if you wanted to know, I got to your blog through san's blog. Me and san are flatmates.